{"id":4981,"date":"2025-10-02T09:12:10","date_gmt":"2025-10-02T07:12:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ontdekjeheiligegraal.com\/how-do-i-set-or-re-establish-healthy-boundaries\/"},"modified":"2026-06-12T15:00:14","modified_gmt":"2026-06-12T13:00:14","slug":"how-do-i-set-or-re-establish-healthy-boundaries","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/ontdekjeheiligegraal.com\/en\/how-do-i-set-or-re-establish-healthy-boundaries\/","title":{"rendered":"How do I set (or re-establish) healthy boundaries?"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-page\" data-elementor-id=\"4981\" class=\"elementor elementor-4981 elementor-3243\" data-elementor-post-type=\"page\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a636fa1 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"a636fa1\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d7bf17f e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"d7bf17f\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-94fea5c elementor-widget elementor-widget-button\" data-id=\"94fea5c\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"button.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-button-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"elementor-button elementor-button-link elementor-size-sm\" href=\"https:\/\/ontdekjeheiligegraal.com\/product\/hoe-her-stel-ik-gezonde-grenzen\/\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-content-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-icon\">\n\t\t\t\t<svg aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"e-font-icon-svg e-fas-arrow-right\" viewBox=\"0 0 448 512\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\"><path d=\"M190.5 66.9l22.2-22.2c9.4-9.4 24.6-9.4 33.9 0L441 239c9.4 9.4 9.4 24.6 0 33.9L246.6 467.3c-9.4 9.4-24.6 9.4-33.9 0l-22.2-22.2c-9.5-9.5-9.3-25 .4-34.3L311.4 296H24c-13.3 0-24-10.7-24-24v-32c0-13.3 10.7-24 24-24h287.4L190.9 101.2c-9.8-9.3-10-24.8-.4-34.3z\"><\/path><\/svg>\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-text\">I want healthy boundaries<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-88320d9 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"88320d9\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h1 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">How do I set (or re-establish) healthy boundaries?<\/h1>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-fbc0233 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"fbc0233\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-34ee089 e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"34ee089\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-eeabd64 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-child\" data-id=\"eeabd64\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-be0c8ec e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"be0c8ec\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-893c3bb elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"893c3bb\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Tips and tools for setting boundaries<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f914af9 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"f914af9\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In the online training <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How do I (re)establish healthy boundaries?<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>trauma and healing expert Rianne van Kuil<\/strong> takes you on your personal journey from unhealthy boundaries\u2014or even the lack thereof\u2014to healthy boundaries. <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">This takes place over 13 weeks with 13 videos and 13 exercises\u2014discoveries presented in the gentle and encouraging language of Discover Your Holy Grail<\/span>. <\/span> <\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In each video, Rianne guides you on your journey, using personal examples, theory, and tools. Then you\u2019ll get to work on the discovery associated with the session. This way, you\u2019ll apply the theory to your own life and discover where your <strong>boundaries<\/strong> have become <strong>rigid or hardened<\/strong>, where there\u2019s still work to be done, or where they\u2019re already healthy.    <\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">You\u2019ll also receive various tools and tips at each session to help you practice recognizing and setting healthy boundaries on a daily basis.<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-aa91644 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"aa91644\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-dc4691a e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"dc4691a\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f9ab951 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"f9ab951\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Who is this workshop for: How do I set (or re-establish) healthy boundaries?<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-353c8c2 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"353c8c2\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>The online course: &#8221; <strong>How Do I Set (or Re-establish) Healthy Boundaries?<\/strong> &#8221; is for anyone who:<\/p><p> <\/p><p>\u2192 doesn&#8217;t really know where his or her boundaries lie<\/p><p>\u2192 is always &#8220;on&#8221;<\/p><p>\u2192 often tries to control others or situations<\/p><p>\u2192 finds it hard to say no<\/p><p>\u2192 isn&#8217;t quite sure what he or she really wants<\/p><p>\u2192 Please<\/p><p>\u2192 cares a lot about what others think  <\/p><p>\u2192 tends to overreact<\/p><p>\u2192 is too concerned with others<\/p><p>\u2192 has difficulty making decisions<\/p><p>\u2192 reacts defensively quickly<\/p><p>\u2192 requires a great deal of autonomy<\/p><p>\u2192 is stressed out or has burnout<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-790db16 elementor-widget elementor-widget-button\" data-id=\"790db16\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"button.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-button-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"elementor-button elementor-button-link elementor-size-sm\" href=\"https:\/\/ontdekjeheiligegraal.com\/product\/hoe-her-stel-ik-gezonde-grenzen\/\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-content-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-icon\">\n\t\t\t\t<svg aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"e-font-icon-svg e-fas-arrow-right\" viewBox=\"0 0 448 512\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\"><path d=\"M190.5 66.9l22.2-22.2c9.4-9.4 24.6-9.4 33.9 0L441 239c9.4 9.4 9.4 24.6 0 33.9L246.6 467.3c-9.4 9.4-24.6 9.4-33.9 0l-22.2-22.2c-9.5-9.5-9.3-25 .4-34.3L311.4 296H24c-13.3 0-24-10.7-24-24v-32c0-13.3 10.7-24 24-24h287.4L190.9 101.2c-9.8-9.3-10-24.8-.4-34.3z\"><\/path><\/svg>\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-text\">This is me<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-56a42a3 e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"56a42a3\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-98a2516 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"98a2516\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"800\" src=\"https:\/\/ontdekjeheiligegraal.com\/wp-content\/smush-avif\/2025\/10\/Tegel-shop-V2.001-1024x1024.jpeg.avif\" class=\"attachment-large size-large wp-image-4885\" alt=\"healthy boundaries\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ontdekjeheiligegraal.com\/wp-content\/smush-avif\/2025\/10\/Tegel-shop-V2.001-1024x1024.jpeg.avif 1024w, https:\/\/ontdekjeheiligegraal.com\/wp-content\/smush-avif\/2025\/10\/Tegel-shop-V2.001-300x300.jpeg.avif 300w, https:\/\/ontdekjeheiligegraal.com\/wp-content\/smush-avif\/2025\/10\/Tegel-shop-V2.001-150x150.jpeg.avif 150w, https:\/\/ontdekjeheiligegraal.com\/wp-content\/smush-avif\/2025\/10\/Tegel-shop-V2.001-768x768.jpeg.avif 768w, https:\/\/ontdekjeheiligegraal.com\/wp-content\/smush-avif\/2025\/10\/Tegel-shop-V2.001-1536x1536.jpeg.avif 1536w, https:\/\/ontdekjeheiligegraal.com\/wp-content\/smush-avif\/2025\/10\/Tegel-shop-V2.001-600x600.jpeg.avif 600w, https:\/\/ontdekjeheiligegraal.com\/wp-content\/smush-avif\/2025\/10\/Tegel-shop-V2.001-100x100.jpeg.avif 100w, https:\/\/ontdekjeheiligegraal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Tegel-shop-V2.001.jpeg 1920w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-02de838 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-child\" data-id=\"02de838\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6e529cc elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"6e529cc\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p style=\"text-align: center;\">&#8216;Rianne is a woman on a mission. With the pure lightness of an angel. An angel with both feet firmly on the ground. She knows how to lead because she has gone before us and charted the course through the adventurous dark forest. Allowing me to travel safely. To face my pain and sorrow, to carry them. To celebrate the gentleness.&#8217;      <\/p><p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em>&#8211; Marit<\/em><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-8d867db e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"8d867db\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d5e524c e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"d5e524c\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3a1ac4c elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"3a1ac4c\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Learn to set boundaries<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b2a4dab elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"b2a4dab\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>The online course: &#8221; <strong>How Do I Set (or Re-establish) Healthy Boundaries?<\/strong> &#8221; promises you:<\/p><p> <\/p><p>\u2192 a personalized approach to your specific issues<\/p><p>\u2192 understanding what happened in your past that prevents you from setting boundaries<\/p><p>\u2192 Support in processing painful experiences from the past<\/p><p>\u2192 clear insights in plain language<\/p><p>\u2192 tools to help you avoid overreacting<\/p><p>\u2192 Help with saying no<\/p><p>\u2192 Tips for clearly communicating what you want and what you don&#8217;t want<\/p><p>\u2192 understanding your needs and desires<\/p><p>\u2192 Simple tools for setting boundaries<\/p><p>\u2192 A step-by-step plan for living a free and healthy life with clear boundaries<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e7d7fed elementor-widget elementor-widget-button\" data-id=\"e7d7fed\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"button.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-button-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"elementor-button elementor-button-link elementor-size-sm\" href=\"https:\/\/ontdekjeheiligegraal.com\/product\/hoe-her-stel-ik-gezonde-grenzen\/\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-content-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-icon\">\n\t\t\t\t<svg aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"e-font-icon-svg e-fas-arrow-right\" viewBox=\"0 0 448 512\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\"><path d=\"M190.5 66.9l22.2-22.2c9.4-9.4 24.6-9.4 33.9 0L441 239c9.4 9.4 9.4 24.6 0 33.9L246.6 467.3c-9.4 9.4-24.6 9.4-33.9 0l-22.2-22.2c-9.5-9.5-9.3-25 .4-34.3L311.4 296H24c-13.3 0-24-10.7-24-24v-32c0-13.3 10.7-24 24-24h287.4L190.9 101.2c-9.8-9.3-10-24.8-.4-34.3z\"><\/path><\/svg>\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-text\">I think this<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-8043a1a e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"8043a1a\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2e5c749 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"2e5c749\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"452\" src=\"https:\/\/ontdekjeheiligegraal.com\/wp-content\/smush-avif\/2025\/12\/STILL-OT-7-1024x578.png.avif\" class=\"attachment-large size-large wp-image-4988\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ontdekjeheiligegraal.com\/wp-content\/smush-avif\/2025\/12\/STILL-OT-7-1024x578.png.avif 1024w, https:\/\/ontdekjeheiligegraal.com\/wp-content\/smush-avif\/2025\/12\/STILL-OT-7-300x169.png.avif 300w, https:\/\/ontdekjeheiligegraal.com\/wp-content\/smush-avif\/2025\/12\/STILL-OT-7-768x434.png.avif 768w, https:\/\/ontdekjeheiligegraal.com\/wp-content\/smush-avif\/2025\/12\/STILL-OT-7-1536x867.png.avif 1536w, https:\/\/ontdekjeheiligegraal.com\/wp-content\/smush-avif\/2025\/12\/STILL-OT-7-2048x1156.png.avif 2048w, https:\/\/ontdekjeheiligegraal.com\/wp-content\/smush-avif\/2025\/12\/STILL-OT-7-600x339.png.avif 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1541649 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"1541649\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2ec2fed e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"2ec2fed\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-37773b0 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"37773b0\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">What is the structure of the training?<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-dbbaabd elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"dbbaabd\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Starting from the date of purchase, you\u2019ll receive <\/span><b>two years of <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">access to your personal online learning environment. No one else can see it but you. Starting from the moment of purchase, you\u2019ll find a new video and an exercise every week, so you can get started right away with your topics. <\/span> <\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The videos are about 30\u201345 minutes long and include a content-focused session and a (short) meditation or visualization.  <\/span><\/p><h5>Practicing Setting Boundaries<\/h5><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">After watching the video, you\u2019ll complete a personal assignment that you\u2019ll find in your online learning environment. This assignment will immediately give you insight into why you might struggle to set boundaries, sometimes react too strongly, or, conversely, be overly controlling. The assignments help you explore very specifically what your history is and how it influences your life today. And they provide you with many strategies and tools to practice setting boundaries in real life, allowing you to chart your own course.     <\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You can print out the exercises and fill them in. You can also write down the answers in your personal <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">journal<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, which you will receive at the start of the training.<\/span><\/p><h5>Free and exclusive: live Q&#038;A<\/h5><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Over the course of 13 weeks, you\u2019ll take the steps needed to live a healthy, balanced life\u2014provided you\u2019re willing to put what you learn into practice every day. To provide you with extra support, Rianne hosts a free Q&#038;A session every 6 weeks, exclusively available to anyone enrolled in the online training. Here, you can ask her any personal questions or share examples of challenges you encounter during the training.  <\/span><\/p><h5>Duration of the training<\/h5><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The program lasts 13 weeks from the moment you purchase it. You can also take the course at a slower pace (or start later), but you cannot speed it up. This is a deliberate choice by Rianne, because you need the time to practice what you\u2019ve learned in your daily life and to ask for help if you need it. 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