Transform your life in 3 days
What is the Three-Day Healing Retreat?
Do you want to transform your life? Are you done just getting by and ready to live from a place of strength and control? And are you willing to gently and lovingly confront and let go of your old pain and unhealthy patterns to make that happen?
Then come to the “Discover Your Holy Grail” Three-Day Healing Retreat. It’s an all-inclusive retreat at The Land of Now. Over the course of three days, under the guidance of healing expert and trauma coach Rianne van Kuil, you’ll work on recognizing and releasing old pain and trauma using her Discover Your Holy Grail method and your own personal journey. Rianne will guide you through the steps from trauma to healing. In three days, you’ll learn how to recognize the survival system in your daily life, what pain lies beneath it, and how to take powerful steps to free yourself from it.
The Three-Day Healing Retreat has since become legendary for many and is one of the most beloved events organized by Discover Your Holy Grail. Read below to find out why.
‘The Three-Day Healing Retreat demonstrated a well-established, evidence-based, and structured approach that taps into self-healing capacities you can continue to develop on your own. Working on our own recovery and sharing that with different people is a form of being together and working together in which we were allowed right into each other’s hearts.”
– C.
What does "3 Days of Healing" look like?
In the safe space of a small group, with ample guidance from experienced facilitators, you’ll join others in immersing yourself in each person’s individual goals for these days. Led by Rianne, you’ll embark on a journey of discovery: what is your old pain, how can you gain insight into its influence on your daily life, and how can you peel away the layers of your survival mechanism, one by one, so that the radiant you can emerge?
You’ll learn the “Discover Your Holy Grail” method and will have plenty of opportunity to explore your own themes in depth. You don’t need to have read the books to fully participate, but they would be a good way to prepare.
Group sessions
We start each block with the whole group, and then work individually under the guidance of a facilitator on explorations that align with the block’s theme. These may include writing exercises, conversations, or sensory exercises. Afterward, you’ll return to the group to share your experiences. Rianne will answer everyone’s questions and provide very specific coaching for each person within the group.
These are the sessions that really matter! Rianne takes the time to listen to everyone. That’s what it takes to help everyone achieve a major transformation, and you learn so much from each other’s stories. Our brains can truly heal through the words and experiences of others. It’s a gentle and safe way to heal from old pain.
Meditations and a breathing session
Rianne will periodically lead powerful meditations throughout the day to help you release unresolved pain, fear, or their consequences. And you’re free to step outside for some fresh air, or sit or stand on a yoga mat whenever you like. We’re used to that by now. On Saturday morning, we’ll do a connected breathing session together led by breath coach Lokke Stevens, who is also involved behind the scenes with Discover Your Holy Grail. These are incredibly powerful sessions that really kick off the Saturday. We wouldn’t want to be without them, precisely because you bring your whole body into your own healing process. Lokke will be available all weekend in case you have any questions after this session.
We do all of this in the safe setting of a small group at a beautiful location, with plenty of delicious and nourishing (vegetarian) food. This is truly the icing on the cake, because the tasty food makes you feel lovingly supported and pampered.
Of course, there’s plenty of opportunity to relax, take a walk, or, if the weather’s nice, sit by the fire and daydream.
“This is the best gift I could have given myself!”
– Miranda
When and where is it?
What is your investment, and what do you get in return?
- The "Discover Your Holy Grail" Three-Day Healing Retreat will take place from November 27–29, 2026
- We are at the beautiful and newly renovated retreat location, The Land of Now
- The cost for the three-day program is only €1,095 until July 1; after that, it will be €1,195.
- The three-day healing retreat is led by trauma and healing expert Rianne van Kuil
- You will be staying in a single room
- Lunch is served every day, including at the starting line
- Our chefs will prepare a full breakfast and dinner on two occasions
- There are drinks, fruit, and snacks
- Includes an online follow-up session
Reserve your spot
Take advantage of this offer and book before July 1. You’ll receive a €100 discount. Previous three-day events filled up quickly, so don’t wait too long to book. You can pay in installments.
If you are also participating in the Year of Healing, which starts on September 11 or has already begun, please contact us by email to receive a 10% discount on this three-day retreat.
Terms and Conditions
In the unlikely event that you need to cancel, the cancellation policy as listed here on the website applies.
The weekend will take place provided there are at least 11 registrations. You will be notified no later than two weeks in advance whether the weekend will take place. If there are too few registrations, you will, of course, receive a full refund.