Discover Your Holy Grail Healing Year | September 11

What is it?

Healing isn’t something you do alone. That’s why we’re launching the fourth “Discover Your Holy Grail” Healing Year on September 11. From September through June, you’ll embark on your personal healing journey alongside other heroes and heroines, uncovering old pain and breaking unhealthy patterns. Together, you’ll explore all kinds of themes related to your healing process, such as: How do I set healthy boundaries? How do I connect with myself, my pain, and others? Where am I in the survival system? How do I break free from my unhealthy patterns, addictions, or habits? How do I rise above my fears? Who am I, really? Or: how do I let go of (old) pain?

For a whole year, you’ll immerse yourself in a safe group of people who want the same thing you do: healing and breaking free from unhealthy patterns. It is precisely through the power of the group that you’ll find your process (finally!) making great strides forward.

What to expect.

We meet once a month (in person or online). We’re kicking off a full day of live coverage on September 11. That’s where you’ll meet your fellow students for the first time, have a full day of classes, do (body-oriented, sensory, and thematic) exercises, and be paired with someone you’ll be spending time with for the next year. Read on to find out what that’s like.

After two weeks, you’ll have your first (online) one-on-one session with Rianne to firmly establish your healing goal and work together to identify what’s standing in the way of achieving it. This gives you a huge boost at the start of your journey, because just two weeks later, you’ll meet everyone again live in the first (extra-long) online session—so, fully equipped with new insights and tools, you’ll have kicked off your year.

We’ll meet in person again on December 4; the third in-person session will be on April 4, 2027; and on June 25—at the end of your healing year—there will be another full in-person session. In the months in between, we’ll meet online once a month, from 7:30 p.m. to about 9:30 p.m. These sessions will be recorded (for the private group only), so if you’re ever unable to attend, you’ll have the opportunity to watch the session later. This is done via a replay link that is shared temporarily within the group only, ensuring optimal security for everyone present during the recording. Throughout the year, you’ll also receive two complimentary online training sessions.

“During the group work, I found that I was able to completely let go of my survival mechanism—my mask. I simply had to be myself—without putting on any facade—in a space where my trauma could be seen and heard, both by myself and by others.”

– Alexander

What will I learn in one year?

Throughout the year, we explore various themes related to your healing journey, drawing on the theory from *Discover Your Holy Grail*—the books and podcasts. This will provide you with insights and many practical tools to actively heal in:

How do I accept myself and others?
How do I explore my feelings?
What impact does my family of origin have on my life today, and how can I break free from it?
What is my body trying to tell me, and how do I connect with it?
What are my traumas, and how can I let them go?
What is the impact of serious violations such as abuse and mistreatment?
How do addictions develop, and how can I break free from mine?
How do I deal with anger and sadness?
How do I set healthy boundaries?
How can I live without unhealthy anxiety?
How can I ever look at the person who hurt me without judgment?
How do I set a course?
How do I live in alignment with my true self?

If other urgent issues arise on the first day of the live event, Rianne would like to see how they can be incorporated into the annual program.

Schedule for (online) meetings

The in-person days and online sessions are structured roughly as follows:

Each session begins with checking in with yourself and others. This is where the most important topics come up, and Rianne immediately addresses them in depth and offers everyone personalized advice for the coming month.
This is followed by a substantive session led by Rianne on the topic of that session, followed by an exercise, after which we’ll take the time to discuss it in depth as a group. Rianne will then lead mini-sessions based on the answers, so you can head back out with a well-stocked toolkit.
Rianne will also answer any questions that come up during the session.
Each session also includes time for body-oriented exercises or meditations.

One-on-one sessions with Rianne

Throughout the year, after the first month, you can choose two additional times when you’d like to have an online session with Rianne. You can use these sessions when you’re feeling stuck or if a particular topic is really resonating with you.

Of course, you can always ask Rianne for help or advice throughout the year if you need it. During these current Years of Healing, people are taking full advantage of this, and Rianne encourages it as well: these are your moments of personal growth!

Your own travel companion

Once a week, you’ll call your travel companion to check in: how are you and the other person doing? Are there any issues that need attention? Are new questions arising, or is pain surfacing that hadn’t demanded attention before? You can share all of this with each other, but: you are not each other’s coach. That role belongs to Rianne and the facilitator. You’re there to listen and offer encouragement when things get tough. So even if the call is brief: just knowing that somewhere during the week you can share your process with someone makes you feel supported for a whole year. On the first day, Rianne will also give you tips on how to do that: be a travel companion.

What is the goal?

On the first live day, you’ll set your own goal. It could be anything: feeling free, being yourself, or letting go of that one trauma… You’ll share this goal with the Discover Your Holy Grail team so they can support you and guide you toward your chosen goal.

When is it?

The dates for this fourth Year of Healing are:

September 11: First live event, 10:00 a.m.–5:00 p.m.
October 10, 2:00–6:00 p.m.: Extra-long online session 1
November 9, 7:30–9:30 p.m., Online Session 2
December 4, second live event day, from 10:00 a.m. to 5:00 p.m.
January 11, 7:30–9:30 p.m., Online Session 3
February 23, 7:30–9:30 p.m., Online Session 4
April 4: Live Day 3, 10:00 a.m.–5:00 p.m.
May 3, 7:30–9:30 p.m., Online Session 5
May 31, 7:30–9:30 p.m., Online Session 6
June 25: the final day of the live event, from 10:00 a.m. to 5:00 p.m.

‘Rianne is a warm, gentle, and loving person. She truly listens to you—not just with her ears, but with her whole heart. With her, you feel heard and seen, exactly as you are. She touched me on a deep level, and because of this journey I was able to take with her, she will always hold a special place in my heart.’

– Chantal

Where and when is it? And how much does it cost?

What do you get for your money?

4 live healing sessions from 10:00 a.m. to 5:00 p.m.
An in-depth personal session with Rianne at the start of your healing year to kick-start your goal
6 online sessions – from 7:30 p.m. to 9:30 p.m.
2 additional online training sessions
A folder containing handouts and exercises
Once a week, you check in with your travel buddy (even if it’s just for a moment)
Two more online one-on-one sessions with Rianne, whenever you like. And you can reach out to her throughout the year if you need help
As a gift: The "Discover Your Holy Grail" books were handed out on the first day of the live event

“The tools Rianne gave me have helped me connect more deeply with myself and stay in touch with that connection, as well as look at myself with more compassion. I look back on my coaching journey with Rianne with a very positive feeling, and if I were to run into any challenges again, I would definitely go to Rianne!”

– Niels

Reserve your spot

We would love to welcome you and spend the year together.

You can pay in a single payment or in four installments (the price remains the same),

Terms and Conditions

In the unlikely event that you need to cancel, the cancellation policy as listed here on the website applies.
The weekend will take place provided there are at least 11 registrations. You will be notified no later than two weeks in advance whether the weekend will take place. If there are too few registrations, you will, of course, receive a full refund.